Appreciate and respect the Power of the Word (speech); never misuse this power by swearing, vulgarity, lying and deceit, falsifying another's statement, or destroying the reputation of others.

Strive to govern moods and habits so as to create peace and happiness within your own mind and to share that peace and happiness with others through happy, constructive thoughts, through little acts of generosity and service, and through seeing good and God in others. Acts of giving never go unrewarded.

Always endeavor to develop an open mind, giving credit to others for mental effort even though they may not as yet have discovered the true light of wisdom.

Stand in awe at the threshold of wisdom in humbleness and in deep respect. Remember that wisdom expressed through you is not of your creation but always was. Your endeavor to fit and balance your mind to your higher consciousness of wisdom is your sacred duty and not optional.

Only through constant striving to eliminate bad or negative thoughts and habits can your mind feel justly proud to be a sacred part of Divine Consciousness. Mistakes sometimes occur -- a mistake is not evil -- it may occur through wrong evaluation or sometimes through over-anxiousness, or comparison, or undue optimism. A first mistake may be classified as an error in judgement if a lesson is learned from the experience; if not, then it is a conscious mistake upon a negative plane of mind, and serious and punishable through the law of reaction and your conscious realization that you deliberately created your own test and must now find the solution.

Kill out ego and false pride. Never take the know-it-all attitude, for to do so is to kill out natural incentive and progress.

Remember that your mind is the greatest instrument in the universe. As you think, so are you, because the nature of your thoughts indicates the plane of mind to which you are tuned; thus, your thinking and you are one. If you did but realize the power of your own mind for good or for destructiveness, you would check every thought and utterance. Do not say wrong or hurtful things for fun or to build up your own importance. Remember false pride comes before a fall. Never negate your thoughts and ideas; never say "can't" or depreciate your ability to equal or better the performance of others. What others have done, you can do, and do better, but do not say so; prove it in greater application than others, for only by effort and application will your works be known. Never make idle and boastful statements; say only that which is logical and truthful. Learn to know when to speak, and always express your thoughts in a refined and dignified way so as to leave the best impression.

Be systematic; proceed step by step, and learn to finish the things you start. Never make a promise that you cannot, or do not, intend to carry out; thus will you always speak truth. Align yourself always upon the side of justice, truth, and honesty. Do not meet others upon the plane of anger, wrongdoing, or thoughtlessness. Always use the power of analysis, particularly when in doubt. Never attempt to alibi that which you know is wrong. Keep your mind always upon a constructive plane of thinking. Remember, your sins will always find you out.

Always seek for an ideal, an objective, and the proper method of application. Create a refined and individual personality, a happy and generous one. Develop clean and tidy habits, body cleanliness, and a clean mind. Be conservative, yet creative, in your dress. Avoid showiness in dress and loudness in speech. Make others want to pattern themselves after you: that is a well-deserved compliment.

Kabalarian Philosophy (1897-1964)

Happy Birthday to my Mother all the 10th november born.

R O A D

Concrete has life who says not ?If you then you've never been on road.
Road is life if you don't think it this way then measure their alphabets,both are four letter's words..I love long drives and bet you it is always been the most relaxing still posture of human.Road moves mind relaxes.It signs spontaneity.I love white nights,night has got many faces like us and shows its colours when we need its support or someone's support.Relaxing mind never means a sedentary mind rather a happy mind with a hidden beautiful thinking and a hidden smile..:)..
Music favors its mood.
I don't know whatever i try to write i always end up in something philosophical..Talking philosophy is not bad and pouring it into your notes is practical..And catching it gives you another smile.Again a hidden smile.So a long drive is an ATM of your happiness..( ATM means door of happiness for me).

Walking on a morning road with the trees as your fellow companions... moves me.Have you ever been in forest ? Lucky if answer is yes and would be lucky if it is 'will be for sure sometime'.Later suits on me..lol
There is a ladder near my space having,Sunshine...road...forest...on two three steps before top step.An unlimited ladder.Nobody knows whether he or she can reach its top or not but hope is there and dreams are always attractive.
Hope.. Road.. Life.. all are in four letters and are in directly or indirectly proportional relationship.Air journey is somewhat fade than road journey.I don't get why light preferred to got tested in air than on road may be because air so easily surrenders to quantum particles and gives way, water a little brittle,Humans are tough.We just say no to light ..why we resist brilliance ? and why light can't travel on road ?...answer is petrol hike.
In India we all are rich as we earn more than thirty two rupees per day..A sad joke.
Lets not poke into respected politics..'P' looks good with philosophy on politics.
So one day i was on road and which i loved.
Leaving this quiet personality here i say goodbye...talking about road.

Scale 5

Happy October to all..

Another late post.I always try to write here as soon as possible that is what i am doing..
I like this blog because it contains my pieces,i mostly write here when i am extremely sad or happy
or other.
Actually i have got a scale which measures your happiness,it has one to ten digits, later juxta near to sadness and one shows you are normal...digit five indicates you are neutral,neutral means you are confused whether to feel happy or not..On digit five marriage is written.
So about this scale..hmm...i am selling this scale those who want to buy post more than dollar thousand to my address..really,i am serious..
I recently refused a good job may be because one of my friend is working there and i did not want to poke in her professional life,i pondered all the reasons why i refused and got this a prominent one though i wanted this opportunity..My scale shouting five five !
I want my own road my own payable tax,,no trespassing..dealing with Allah not asking from his makhlooq,so do not want others opinion on this matter ! ( dunno addressing to whom)..

 My family calls one of its members hasees..hasees means fool ( for those who don't know its meaning).

About October..the happiest month of all..smells happiness.
 Saw 'source code' this week..brilliant act by the actor..could not sleep that night..Death also has its own respect,this movie tells..The scene showing dead body of the actor has no description,just feel it.Anyways to cope with this movie fever i saw legion second time,,based on a foolish idea,but being a action lover i like this movie..Men should be like this..intelligent strong angels..lol
Now want Aleph ...lucky aleph soon come here,i will give you a new meaning.Urdu is best to express your emotions and my family emotions too.

Allahafiz

A sweet poem by H. W. Longfellow...

I shot an arrow into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For, so swiftly it flew, the sight
Could not follow it in its flight.
I breathed a song into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For who has sight so keen and strong,
That it can follow the flight of song?
Long, long afterward, in an oak
I found the arrow, still unbroke;
And the song, from beginning to end,
I found again in the heart of a friend.

Happy Friendship Day

Just like that..

Naye daur ki hawa nayi tazgi layi hai,

Kehte hain lutf lena hai to iman girvi rakho

Mar bhi jaun kafir na banu kisi ke waste

akhri saans tak musalman rehne ki qasm jo khai hai..

Mujko jante ho tou har zid kinare kar do

na- kafir milo hum bhi yahin hain tum bhi yahin ho..

Urfi

Toronto Folks... alpha

24th August Bhopal airport...My first journey i stepped abroad and luckily alone so all free,I waited here for one of my friend who didn't come..reason unknown..so a due.

25th August Mumbai Airport...It was 10 pm i checked in,behind me in queue,i met an indian actress a national level sprinter and soccer player..good to know this..she was so busy on her cell..just like me,unlimited goodbye(s)..lol

At 10 am i was in London,heathrow airport..such a big big airport !...one of the most exciting feature of my journey..fantastic place,huge terminals,hundreds of boeings..kind of traffic jam,every plane has to wait for its

turn for take off..long queue,it was so wonderful watching loads of planes in line...

I felt so refreshing, first thing i did there was my search for money exchange counter,i took many coins and some notes to make calls.Then i roamed almost everywhere over my terminal,there was so much to shop and pop,but being shareef i took only a gift from a pen shop :)..

Toronto..a neat and clean city..peaceful atmosphere..in one word worth a place to breathe.

My home(sis's home) is surrounded by lake..beautiful place just like i read in literature,especially in school books in poetry of HG Wells,R Brownings and others..

there i confirmed that sun actually rises from water and sets also in water,night is much prettier than day,silver moon shines on silvery water with all the yatches..swans..so relaxing..

It turns heavenly during snowfall...whiteness all around..serene view..

It was the first time i saw snowfall..cant say how it feels when u opened your eyes in morning and see snow falling outside your room..

Food..oho.. where to start from..i tasted almost every variety of cuisines found here..they have labenese..hungarian..thai..chinese..korean..greek..italian..indian..mediterranean etc..i tried my best not to eat from home as my sis cooks best ;)...lol..italian and greek food especially their salads..umm..don't want to sense it now..i have got good olfactory sense paired with numerous taste buds..but for halal food you will have to petrol your body,or easy way is to go for sea food.

How could i forget a neighbour,Rose..:)..sweet old lady,gifted her handmade cookies,chocolates...she is so fond of decorating her home she showed me her beautifully enhanced christmas tree and family tree..:O

..yup both...

The most happening place i found in city is downtown..crowded place..it has a huge mall eaton centre where you can find almost all brands,cute faces and figure ;)...offcorse figures in numbers.

Toronto is one of the top financial cities,this is the reason they afforded me easily..

HardRock cafe is situated in

downtown,outside it you can find every kind of bikes you've heard about, known for its life,i clicked a bike there,later on i came to know it was of a gangster..These biker groups can be commonly seen on roads..so stylish and sassy when they ride with all their hues..

Toronto Folks..beta

I never though of playing with stones but it happend one day i got myself into sculpture making..'sculpture' sounds paradisiac ,actually i just searched,collected some stones near sea and arranged them into a strategic manner and made something in just two hours..

And now about the most marvelous place..Niagra falls ,which you can not miss..It separates Ontario from US..incredible place..i tried my best not to close eyes beneath falls,but it is simply impossible..infact boat can not exactly takes you under it,nobody can dare.. but to a distance where you can experience its speedy falling water..Fall gives beauty as well as electricity.They have amazing arrangements for night,and whole fall baths in coloured lights..awesome !
I have tried to capture the bizarre...attaching a video here..but i found it missing here :(

In niagra we went to a casino but their churlish security lady and her superintendent didn't allow me to enter according to them i was too old and mature to enter..silly people..moral -never forget to carry your identity proof with you when you go to such childish places..;)

In compensatory reaction i went to a playdium near it and won a cute tequila glass.. in which i will drink tea !...

Toronto Folks...gamma

I visited almost all famous places of Toronto..poked everywhere,There is an island ,Centre Island..enjoyed there a lot..full of white sand..clean place..i had collected many seashell but forgot to carry them to home..

And when it started snowing i started falling ..hehe..i did ice skating..omg..very hard to maintain an errect posture on blades over ice..roz farshi sajde kiye..i don't know how easily

people do skating there even

children..may be infants..so quick and fast..One thing i liked most during this skilled show,is having coffee daily..tim hortans's..i wonder why they don't have any branch in India or in Bhopal ?

Their french vanilla coffee( writing its flavour because it is the only taste i

liked)tastes hell...a lot more can happen over a coffee..ahem ahem..

My happy birthday fortunately or unfortunately happened in toronto...and i liked it :)..planned for sky diving but everytime when i went there..air was too high,i couldnt make it..i will do it soon IA.

The best thing i received from Toronto is my tattoo....my asset..love it the most..:)Some pains give you lifelong happiness..sweetest pain i ever had ( coined term sweetest just like that otherwise you know how it pains on piercing if you have one..)..

Now i stop,have much to write on my blog..I wish to visit my sister's home again and of course Heathrow airport..

Being true ..

As i read in a book that eighteenth february going to be one of finest days of this year for me, according to a famous astrologer..lolz...I do not believe in luck though purchase this astrology book every year because somehow i know i have got the best luck among all...

Still i hope it will prove as my finest day in future.. :)

Day starts with a shock not literally a shock but an unexpected talk from a candid person.I don't know whether other's decision was appropriate or not but i feel betrayed and disappointed...

This is not the first time i felt so i have an experience of uncounted wounds and deception...I do not understand how people could change themselves so easily without having thought of others who trust them...Why you make such relation which you yourself is not sure about ?

Friendship is not merely a ten alphabets word..it is a bond,and its all upto you how you progress it,how serene and pure you make it..

I never develop any relation with hidden intentions.All my bonds are pious and true and it all will be throughout my life...

why people get change ? I truly want a genuine answer,do all your promises of forever affinity were false ?Why do you make such big promises and life long relationship/friendship and than forget every ' said ' thing...It hurts..it stabs deep into me from within..because i never take any relation for granted..

Approaching,contacting.getting in touch,messages,being true and good,developing a pure relation and when you start liking such tacts ,and become so much sure about them,then after sometime reality comes,that all were fake, yes fake !

This is one of the biggest reason for me of not making close friends,i want an innocent,benevolent relations which keep everyone happy and cheering..smiles everywhere..

I trust people rarely.

and when it shatters,it is so painful i cant describe what happens to me,it laughs on me,as i always try best to not to trust easily..Only my Allah knows how i feel..and He will definitely ask those who did it to me.His Qur'an gives me patience and warmth...Time will make everything blurr and such persons too..but all these things will remain in my heart forever..I Never ever forget anything happens to me good or not so good..

Might be it would make me strong and firm ,but what of others who forget their friendship,they wont grow up in their lives..

I still pray for their wellbeing..

This is all i can say..

Urfi